Let's Learn To Pray

Let's Learn to Pray - Matthew 6:9-13

Friends,

Good Monday morning to you. The sun is shining; the weather is going to get in the 60’s. Spring is in the air!!! But let’s turn our attention for a moment from what’s going on outside, to what’s going on inside…our hearts.

This needs to be emphasized and re-emphasized. The difference between living like verses 2-4, as modeled by Janes and Jambres who have “a form of godliness (but deny its power) is Paul’s encouragement to “abide” in the Scripture; to “trace” the life of God that makes us “wise for salvation which is through Jesus Christ. (2 Timothy 3). That’s it, friends. To master the word until we are mastered by it. Because the more you know the Bible, the more you will know God, the more in love with him you will be and the more closely you will follow him with your heart, mind, soul and strength. You, the elders and I, as the spiritual leaders of Heritage must live this life, model it and teach our people to thrive in the Bible.

Take the doctrine of prayer, our subject matter this Sunday. Had Jesus not taught the disciples how to pray, they would not have known how to pray. Had the Gospel writers not recorded Jesus’ words on prayer, we would not know how to pray. If we do not read, study, memorize, meditate on, and practice Jesus’ words, we are not praying. This text alone teaches us the Christian life cannot be lived separate from the Bible.

It is not enough for us to hold the Bible in high esteem, to talk about it or to have innumerable copies of it in our homes, on our phones, etc. We must immerse ourselves in it.

We are saved by the Word – 1 Peter 1:23 We are sanctified by the Word – John 15:3

We are told how to live in the Word – 2 Timothy 3:16-17

The Bible is literally the answer to everything for us. So, let me encourage you to be a person of

the Word, to listen to God’s command to Joshua (1:8) and to sincerely follow it –

This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth = The Word must not drift away from your speech or consciousness.

but you shall meditate on it day and night = the word “meditate” = to prize the Bible like a lion

growling over its prey, its food, its sustenance.

so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it = continual meditation on and speaking God’s Word is intended to produce vigilant, comprehensive obedience to everything he has commanded.

It’s the only way to “prosper” and have “success” (1:9) in the Christian life, friends.

With that in mind, let’s prosper in our prayer lives. Let’s have “good success” in prayer. It begins

with knowing what Jesus said about prayer and then living a life of prayer.

Here’s a proposed outline for this Sunday –

Let’s Learn to Pray

Matthew 6:9–13 (cf. Luke 11:1)

Big Idea: Jesus teaches us to pray by reshaping who we trust, what we want, and how we

live.

Introduction: The Request Behind the Prayer (Luke 11:1) - “Lord, teach us to pray.”

The disciples had witnessed Jesus’ authority and power, and they traced it to communion with the Father.

Prayer was not ornamental in Jesus’ life. It was foundational.

When Jesus says, “Pray then like this,” he is not giving a script to recite mechanically, but a

pattern to form disciples.

IMP: We are never more the Christians our private prayer life and private Bible study reveal us to be.

First: Prayer Recognizes a Father (Matthew 6:9a) - “Our Father in heaven…”

Prayer is all about a relationship and relating to God.

Second: Prayer Reorders Our Priorities - (Matthew 6:9b–10)

Before Jesus allows us to ask for bread, he teaches us to long for glory.

Third: Prayer Retrains Our Dependence (Matthew 6:11–13)

As sinners, we strive for independence, but we are dependent creatures. Until we realize this and

live like it, we won’t pray. Nor will we possess the life God intends us to have through prayer.

Fourth: The Movement of the Whole Prayer

a) Father — Identity

b) Glory — Priority

c) Kingdom — Mission

d) Will — Surrender

e) Bread — Dependence

f) Forgiveness — Humility

g) Protection — Watchfulness

Jesus is not merely teaching words. He is forming the lives of disciples. Prayer reshapes:

· Who we trust

· What we want

· How we live

Conclusion: When the disciples said, “Teach us to pray,” they were not asking for things. They were asking about a relationship. Jesus answered not by giving them a formula to master, but by giving them a Father to trust, a kingdom to seek, and daily posture to embrace.

Prayer begins in a relationship. It moves toward adoration. It ends in surrender. And the more we pray like this, the more our hearts begin to look like Heaven.

Here’s this week’s TRAP devotion for you, to help the Scripture fill your mind and heart as you

live prayerfully in Jesus and prepare to lead your CG to do the same.

Monday - Teach Us to Pray (Luke 11:1)

Think. Before Jesus gives the model prayer in Matthew 6, the disciples ask in Luke 11:1, “Lord, teach us to pray.” They had seen his miracles. They had heard his teaching. And they traced his life to communion with the Father. Prayer was not ornamental in his life; it was foundational.

As such, they did not assume they knew how to pray. They asked to be taught. Prayer must be learned from Scripture. If Jesus had not taught them, they would not have known how to pray. If the Gospel writers had not recorded his words, we would not know how to pray. The Christian life cannot be lived separate from the Bible.

Reflect. As a CG leader, learning to pray is a prerequisite to teaching others how to pray. How are you learning to pray? What are you learning to pray? Are you still asking to be taught?

Apply. Read Matthew 6:9–13 aloud three times today. Slowly. Do not analyze it yet. Just listen. Let the words shape your thinking about prayer.

Pray. Father, teach me to pray. Do not let me teach others what I am not living myself.

Tuesday - Prayer Begins with a Father (Matthew 6:9a)

Think. Prayer begins with relationship. Not performance. Not technique. Adoption.

“Our” reminds us prayer is covenantal. We belong to a people who are being conformed to Jesus’ image. “Father” reminds us we already are reconciled and our approach to God is based on Jesus’ life and works, not ours. “In Heaven” reminds us he reigns over all our requests and should reign in our lives. Your view of God determines your prayer life. If he is distant, you will be formal. If he is harsh, you will be guarded. If he is Father, you will come.

Reflect. Do you approach God as Father or as evaluator? Does your prayer life reveal intimacy and reverence?

Apply. Before asking for anything today, spend five full minutes addressing God as Father. Thank him for saving you. Rehearse to him and yourself what it means to belong to him.

Pray. Our Father in heaven, anchor my life and CG leadership in sonship, not performance.

Wednesday - Prayer Reorders Our Priorities (Matthew 6:9b–10)

Think. Glory comes before bread. God gave Israel manna in the wilderness to display his glory. God’s priorities shape how he provides for us. Can you trust him with that? In this prayer, Jesus trains our desires before he allows us to request anything. Otherwise, we are wasting our breath. To hallow his name means to treat it as weighty, the priority. To seek his kingdom means to want his reign extended, in us and the world. To pray for his will means surrender to that kingdom.

Prayer is not aligning God with our agenda. It is aligning ourselves with his.

Reflect. When you pray, what comes first: your crisis or his kingdom? Does your leadership in the CG reflect God-centered priorities? The difference will shape your life.

Apply. Write down your current prayer requests under three headings:

1. God’s Name

2. God’s Kingdom

3. God’s Will

Let Scripture reshape your prayer list. This will change your life!!!

Pray. Father, reorder my loves. Make your glory weightier to me than my comfort.

Thursday - Prayer Retrains Our Dependence (Matthew 6:11–13)

Think. Daily dependence dismantles self-sufficiency. “Forgive us our debts.” – We all need mercy. “As we forgive…” Unforgiveness suffocates prayer. “Lead us not into temptation…” Prayer assumes our need for God. This prayer retrains the illusion that we are strong, sufficient, and secure on our own.

Reflect. Where are you living independently instead of dependently? Is there someone you must forgive before you teach this Sunday?

Apply. Confess one specific sin today before God. Name it. Receive forgiveness. Extend forgiveness if needed.

Pray. Lord, keep me humble, dependent, and vigilant.